I pray that's your son, your family and yourself all receive the strength to push through this very difficult time. We are all here for you. Take all the time you want to focus on the ever-important things in life. Family > everything.
It's tricky getting a SARB017 these days. I would go with any of the other prospects versions. The black is the more versatile.
I have a quartz Superman. No issues QC wise. I don't love the clasp on the bracelet but a strap helped.