My Wife's First Proper Watch!

If you're on this platform, then you're a watch nerd like me. And if you're a watch nerd like me, and have a spouse/partner/significant other, then you've probably subjected them to many hours of watch talk - either in the form of talking about watches non-stop, or YouTube videos, or watch meets, or because of your inability to restrain yourself from walking past a watch boutique or AD and NOT at the very least gawk at the window display if not straight up walk in to stare at watches and maybe even try some on...while they support us and love us for who and what we are 😊

There's also a strong likelihood that at some point you've suggested that they get a watch of their own to "join in on the fun that is the watch world." Sometimes, in rare instances, our significant others reciprocate the passion and interest and join in! Other times, they outright may say "this is not for me" which is totally fine. And sometimes, whether it's because we've worn them down, or because we've actually sparked interest in them (because of our incessant asking) they'll finally say something around the lines of "ok, so if I WERE to theoretically spend money on a watch, and not on (insert their preferred vice here) I supposed it would be (insert watch of choice here) for me."

This last scenario is the one my wife and I found ourselves in. And one random day we were watching some random YouTube video, and the Oyster Perpetual 36 in turquoise pops up. And my wife goes "oh, well that's pretty."

MY EYEBROWS SHOOT STRAIGHT UP AND MY EXCITEMENT BUILDS...but I have to play it cool...keep calm...

"Oh yeah? You like the OP 36? That's cool, yeah, it's a fun watch, very wearable and that dial color is super versatile"

...I'm sure I overdid it. No one says that to their significant others, I'm coming on too strong...

"Yes, it's very nice, do they come in other colors?"

"They do indeed, there's a light pink, a green, a red, even a yellow one, although some of these may be discontinued, but yeah, it's great, lots of people love them."

"Nice, that's probably the one I'd get."

"The turquoise one?"

"Yeah, it's fun and looks like a great watch all around."

"Hey, did you know it has a nickname? They call it Tiffany Blue because it looks like the blue from Tiffany & Co."....I over did it again...

"Oh yeah I can see that, it's nice!"

And that's all it took - I made a mental note and said "if ever this watch became available, I would try and surprise her with it. It would be HER watch, plus it's a Rolex so it'll last forever, and that color is absolutely gorgeous."

Fast forward more time than I care to account for, I'm sitting in my car on a Saturday in March waiting for my online order to be completed so I can go home and enjoy our favorite Indian takeout food...and my AD, whom I've told ONCE that "if the OP 36 Tiffany became available, it would be an instant purchase for my wife" shoots me a text:

"Hey, you should get this for your wife haha!"

I IMMEDIATELY text him back - "are you serious right now?"

No answer.

I text him again - "dude, please tell me you're serious, you KNOW that's the one and only watch my wife wants."

No answer.

I call him - no answer.

I leave him a voice message - "I'm serious, you can't do this to me, you can't just text me and then I'm over here losing my mind thinking you're just messing with me, please tell me it's real, call me back!"

He calls back 3 minutes later - "Hey! Yeah, sorry I was with a client. I was just joking about the watch, sorry!"

"Wait, so you DON'T have the OP 36?"

"No I DO have it, but I was just teasing that you should get it for your wife, thought it would be fun haha"

"Dude, you don't understand, that's THE watch for her, I told you a while ago! Please tell me I can buy it!"

"You want to come see it?"

"YES! I'm waiting for our food, please put it aside I'll be right there!!!"

I text my wife and I tell her I need to run some other errands and that I'd be home a little later...because I'm now on a mission to source the funds to buy her/mine/our ideal watch for her...without her knowing! I can see it now, the perfect birthday gift, secured MONTHS in advance, it's going to be epic!

I get the food, I drive to my AD at a totally normal rate of speed, and I see the watch! The funds had been moved appropriately in the interim, and the plan to keep the watch inside the AD's safe until her birthday 4 months later was set in place.

I lasted 2 weeks. I COULDN'T KEEP IT A SECRET ANY LONGER and I figured she deserved to enjoy the watch as soon as possible! And so lucky for me she wanted to go to the mall, and after some frantic yet totally coordinated and super sleek texts between my AD and I, we had arrange for the surprise to happen in store. And it did. And it was epic! And so now you know the journey.

We went from a totally chill Saturday, just waiting for your takeout food to be finished, to a text that started out as a joke, to HYPER joy and disbelief - to - my wife now has her very own watch, one that is truly hers (the Cartier Tank is a shared watch, it doesn't count) and one that she's been wearing every single day since we picked it up 😍

The surprise was perfect, my AD is amazing, she's over the moon with the watch, and I'm full of joy to see her loving this whole experience and joining our little watch community with what is arguably one epic watch

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That’s starting too high!!!😍

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Great storytelling, too! 🤩

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My wife chose a G-Shock that I already had in my collection. 😁

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napilut

That’s starting too high!!!😍

Listen, we don't know what tomorrow will bring - I had to seize the opportunity to help her with her FIRST watch! If it only gets better from here onwards, then so be it! She did just say she thinks the Baby G-Shocks are pretty cool, so fingers crossed I'll be looking to add another watch box to the household 😂🙏

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technl

Great storytelling, too! 🤩

Very kind of you, thanks 🤝

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CliveBarker1967

My wife chose a G-Shock that I already had in my collection. 😁

I'm going to absolutely count that as a win, and the start of what will undoubtedly be a great journey into the watch wor....wait, you already had it? So she just took it from you like "this is now mine" ?! 😜

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The_Timist

I'm going to absolutely count that as a win, and the start of what will undoubtedly be a great journey into the watch wor....wait, you already had it? So she just took it from you like "this is now mine" ?! 😜

Yes! She was looking at a new watch as her old Seiko 5 had stopped working. She browsed my collection looking for a replacement. (Very stressful for me) And then just took the one she wanted. Definitely a win IMO. Could have been far more painful 🥺

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CliveBarker1967

Yes! She was looking at a new watch as her old Seiko 5 had stopped working. She browsed my collection looking for a replacement. (Very stressful for me) And then just took the one she wanted. Definitely a win IMO. Could have been far more painful 🥺

Well done! That's another kind of joy! Glad she found one, and glad you guys have that kind of relationship 🤝 more power to you!

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The_Timist

Listen, we don't know what tomorrow will bring - I had to seize the opportunity to help her with her FIRST watch! If it only gets better from here onwards, then so be it! She did just say she thinks the Baby G-Shocks are pretty cool, so fingers crossed I'll be looking to add another watch box to the household 😂🙏

I envy you! My wife dorsn’t care about watches a bit. She has the same cheap swatch since aged ago… 😅

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Congrats! Well jealous here. I have been on the waiting life for this model for >2 years now. The AD made up for it by giving me the candy pink instead which is also slightly hard to get in where I live here. I am still on the list for the Tiffany Blue. Hope to get the call soon.

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That's how you start 💪

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Nicely done 🍻!! Congrats and hope she wears it well !!

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Big congrats!

My wife is a watch nerd too :)

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I had so much fun reading this and am so happy for the two of you. Your AD sounds awesome. I love “totally normal rate of speed”.

I’ve been on the list for over two years for that watch, so huuuge congrats.

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Hey James,

Great story and amazing looking Tiffany OP. I love it when our partners find watches that speak to them. I’m glad your wife found her watch. Congrats again and I wish you both well!

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giovanni86

Well done mate!!

Thanks so much 👍

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BelenJ

How fun! Congrats!! 🎉

Very much appreciated! 👍

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jimbos_time_and_watch

That is awesome!!! #relationshipgoals!

My fiancé finally got used to wearing one all the time. She is an Auto tech, so I got her a nice G-shock for work. Now she says she can't leave home without it!

I'm sensing matching wedding watches in the future?!? 😅😋🤗

YES! Well done! That's so awesome to hear! I'm smiling like a fool just thinking about you two having matching wedding watches, engraved with the special date and message 🥳

I fully support this endeavor 👌

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ChowJunbon

Lovely story 🫶🏻

I remember being in your shoes too, everything you just said at the beginning 💯when the pink OP came out I was showing it to my wife , she said it looked nice and at the time , I thought they were shouldn’t be too hard to get… how wrong I was.

In the end due to the price on the grey , she said she would rather use that money on another luxury bag.

So NO I really want her to have one nice watch.

She now has her sights set on the Cartier Ronde must 36.

So I’m planing to do something similar to you and surprise her with it one day.

I'm glad you enjoyed my crazy day/story 🤝

Yes! You totally get it! Whenever I'd show her something, it was usually followed up by "how much is it?" and when I'd tell her the price the usual answer would be "for that money I could get a bag/shoes/perfume/jewelry/etc." which I totally respect and support, but also...kind of think she deserves an epic watch! So when this happened I was absolutely over the moon!

Cartier Ronde Must 36 is a beauty! Good luck my friend, I'm cheering you on 🥳

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FeebleWrists

Ooh, I'm so envious - what s beauty! Hope your wife enjoys it.

Very much appreciated 😊👍

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jaydubw

Great story and I admire your patience. Surreptitiously getting her buy-in was awesome.

I purchased a Citizen Promaster for my wife to lure her away from her Apple. I thought it was fitting, since we got to dive in Australia last year, and will again this summer. But she thinks she needs to be diving to wear it. I’ve told her that most people who own dive watches probably don’t dive, but I think the real problem is that she is addicted to counting her daily steps!

Thank you! And right?! It all just came together in the most perfectly unplanned manner ever! 🙏

Yeah, well done mate! I'm not timing races or going to the moon with my Speedmaster, nor diving, etc. we do it for fun and just knowing what these watches can do can bring joy 😊

Daily step counter, yeah I can see that. Hard thing to solve for that's for sure! Citizen Promaster though, great choice! I have a soft spot in my heart for Citizen - it was my FIRST ever watch purchase. Well done 👌 I'm rooting for you, I'm sure she'll add more to the collection, just keep exposing her to cool pieces, one will win eventually...and then another...and then another...and then another 😂

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Wyndy1

That was a fun read! Congrats to you both 😂happy Sunday brother!

Glad you enjoyed it! And thank you 🤝 likewise, take it easy!

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Watchcology

Awesome story!!

Thank you my friend! I may just join you in the watch writing space one day 😀🤝

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Rolexahoma

Great story with a happy ending for the both of you.

Indeed, we're both very happy and grateful - thanks for the kind words 🙏

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Great story thanks for sharing

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The_Timist

I'm so happy to hear! It was a crazy day so I figured I'd try to include that in the post itself given that these sort of things don't really happen all that often 😂

Thank you! I'm sure you'll be posting up your own NWA soon enough 🤝

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I'm grateful when my wife knows what she wants. Well done!

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Dude! 💪

Awesome for wifey, that’s a score.

Just checked c24.. OMG. 😱

…the turquoise blue sells for ~ 3x retail 🤯

My wifey better not fall for a blue Rolex 😂 !!

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FlatteryCamp

I'm grateful when my wife knows what she wants. Well done!

I’m right there with you on that 👍

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Fieldwalker

Dude! 💪

Awesome for wifey, that’s a score.

Just checked c24.. OMG. 😱

…the turquoise blue sells for ~ 3x retail 🤯

My wifey better not fall for a blue Rolex 😂 !!

Thanks my friend! You BETTER be ok with it, and even more so, better support your wife’s choice no matter what 😄🙌