I have a BB36 and a 17cn wrist. I don't have the same issue, but possibly you need more links on one end of the watch than the other. I find an extra link on the 12.00 side normally does the job
I downsized from 42 to 32. A watch every day for a month is probably the perfectly sized collection. If I were you I would get rid of anything that has a digital display and is over 40mm, but that's just personal taste
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