Wear what you feel good in. Lesson learned, Correct. We've all been there. I've liked a watch bought it but, realized its too small. As a rule of thumb 38mm up is a men's watch. 36mm is pushing the limit toward unisex . But can work on smaller wrist. Now 34mm in this day in age will register with most as a womans. Learning lesson for you and your comfort zone is ultimately the only thing that matters at the end of the day.